Reality.
You either learn how to overcome adversity, difficulty, and discomfort, or you run and seek to escape.
As a believer, Jesus gave us a plan in dealing with these things.
Sadly many believers are unaware of what Jesus said outside of bumper stickers or relegate it to “theology”. The teachings of Jesus is the prescription to reality.
When we seek to live, think and respond to people and circumstances based on the principles of Jesus and His wisdom given to us in the Gospels specifically and more in general in the epistles.
The sooner you learn the Jesus way, the sooner you can live with peace and handle your reality.